Morality, Ethics, and Love

How to Develop Your Own Moral and Ethical System (and Why You Would Want To)

Most of us know that we are supposed to be moral, but we might not be sure exactly how to be moral, and we might even wonder if being moral benefits us. When we don’t have a clear idea of the what and why of morality, we often feel like it is a list of rules that people devise to ensure we act in ways acceptable to them (but perhaps of no benefit to us).

Is it Good for Us to Be Ethical and Moral? Why?

Of course, this makes us feel rebellious, and it can make us wonder sometimes if we should even bother with morality.

That’s where I come into the picture. I study and teach ethics and morality. I love explaining this subject, and I also happen to believe that when approached with the right perspective, the study of ethics and morality is extremely empowering. I believe it can help us to act more confidently and purposefully. It can also help us to be the boss of our own lives while allowing others to be the boss of their lives, too.

Ethics and morality also helps us live a more integrated, consistent, and meaningful life because it gives us principles to live by.  If we don’t live according to principles, we are likely to live according to influences like impulse, emotions, habit, peer pressure, instinct, or ambition. None of these influences are bad in themselves, but if we don’t have principles to help us discern when they are helpful or not, living solely by such influences often gets us into trouble.

For example, our emotions can be a great influence on our actions, but only when we use ethical principles to help us decide which emotions are helpful and which ones aren’t. For instance, acting solely on the emotion of anger without any consideration as to how to handle our anger constructively will likely get us into trouble.

Acting without clear principles often leads us to act chaotically, recklessly, and in a contradictory manner. This is no way to live long-term because it often leads us to act against our own best interest and the best interest of others. That’s why the study of ethics and morality is so helpful: it aids us in discovering our own life principles.

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What are Ethics and Morality?

Before I go any further, let me define two important words I have already used quite a bit: ethics and morals. Some people use these words interchangeably.  Others think that the word morality refers to the basic principles we live by, while ethics refers to the way we live out those principles through our conduct in society.

In whatever way you use these terms, it is important to note that moral and ethical conduct has both an internal and external dimension. It pertains both to cultivating a certain kind of character and behaving a certain way consistently in the world. For the sake of simplicity, I am going to use the word ethics from here on out to refer to the principles and actions we adopt in order to live well in the world.

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In this post, I am going to tell you about three of the most common and influential ethical systems, but before I do that, let me tell you what I am not going to do.

What I am not Going to Do in This Post

I am not going to tell you the specific ethical system you should adopt. I am not going to, for instance, give you a list of five rules and tell you, “You must follow these rules in order to be ethical.”  One of the most important parts of being an ethical person is developing good reasons for acting the way you do. So, I would rather tell you some various ethical options, and their advantages and disadvantages and allow you to take responsibility for how to live your life.

Here is one last caveat before I begin. Many people believe that being an ethical person is synonymous with following a certain religion, philosophy, political party, or scientific theory. It is understandable why people might believe this. After all, these areas of study often give us very helpful rules for living.

However, if we consider the matter carefully, we will soon realize that members of the same group (whether it is religious, political, scientific, or whatever) disagree quite a bit about how to interpret the meaning of its own sacred scriptures or other group philosophy or rules.

So, even if we belong to a group like this, we must ultimately decide how to interpret the rules, philosophies, or scriptures of the group. We do that by interpreting it through the ethical principles we have adopted.

Therefore, we cannot escape our ethical responsibility.

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Accepting our Ethical Responsibility

Given that, I would like to introduce you to three ethical systems that can help you accept your ethical responsibility and help you decide the way you believe is best to live. These three systems are classical, Western ethical systems. In future posts, I will also tell you about some contemporary and Eastern ethical systems.

Here is a brief introduction to the systems. I will explore each of the systems in more detail in future posts:

Virtue Ethics: This system of ethics is developed in Aristotle’s[1] writings like Nicomachean Ethics. (He never calls his ethics virtue ethics—rather, this is a contemporary name applied to Aristotle’s systems of ethics and the ethics of other philosophers like him.). Aristotle’s virtue ethics suggests that the moral action is that which exemplifies the mean (the appropriate amount) of virtue. The mean of virtue avoids excess or defect of certain desirable character traits like courage, big-heartedness, and generosity.

For example, if we show an excess of courage, we are brash and reckless. If we show a defect of courage, we are cowardly and timid. For Aristotle, true courage is the perfect amount of the character trait we need to demonstrate when we face frightening and dangerous situations. Not all virtue ethicists emphasize the mean of virtue, and not all virtue ethicists agree on which virtues are the most important.

However, all virtue ethicists tend to emphasize that the proper way to act ethically is to develop an ethical character and act as an ethical person would act–this entails developing certain virtues in one’s life.

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Deontological Ethics: This system of ethics is developed in Immanuel Kant’s writings such as Groundwork for Metaphysics of Morals. (He also never refers to his ethics as deontological ethics.) Kant believes that the moral action is the action that we can will everyone universally to do. This moral principle is called the categorical imperative.

For example, Kant believes that lying is immoral because we cannot will everyone universally to lie. In fact, if everyone universally made lying their practice, lying wouldn’t work anymore. Lying only works when people tell the truth and we make ourselves the exception to the rule by lying.

Consider another example: Kant would say that cutting in line is immoral because we cannot will everyone universally to cut in line. In fact, if everyone practices line-cutting, line-cutting won’t work anymore. The only way cutting in line works is if other people abide standing in line and we make ourselves the exception to the rule.

Another way of stating Kant’s categorical imperative is this: Do not make yourself the exception to the rule.

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Utilitarian Ethics: This system of ethics is developed by several philosophers, the most influential of which is probably John Stuart Mill. He develops his version of this ethical system in his book Utilitarianism.  Mill argues that the moral action is the action that maximizes pleasure and minimizes pain for the most people. He also believes that the quality of our pleasure is just as important as the quantity of our pleasure. Mill famously says that “It is better to live as a human dissatisfied than a pig satisfied.”

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Concluding Question

Which of these three systems seems to you to be the best system for helping you make ethical decisions? Why?

Stay tuned for further posts on each of these systems…

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[1] All three of the philosophers I write about in this post are historical philosophers, but I write about them in the present tense because their work is still influential in moral and ethical discussions today.

10 thoughts on “How to Develop Your Own Moral and Ethical System (and Why You Would Want To)”

  1. How very interesting! I have to say this put me in mind of a scene from the movie Election. Have you ever seen it? At the beginning, there’s a scene where the teacher asks his class the difference between ethics and morals. It’s hard for them to untangle, and then it kind of becomes a hidden theme throughout the entire film. It’s pretty good! 🙂

  2. Interesting to see that there are the three systems. Seems to me that if our moral and ethical systems comes from ourselves, then it will be all the stronger.

  3. Thank you for a wonderful write up. One can’t be reminded enough of the good that can follow from keeping principles in the forefront of one’s life. In reply to your question: My heart bends towards virtue ethics. The golden mean enables one to act in light of the situation, rather than dogmatically follow strict rules that sometimes don’t apply to a particular situation. For instance, stealing is forbidden, but there may be occasions when it would be prudent to break the law in order to feed a starving child let’s say. For me, virtue ethics is also more intuitive or natural to work with. You don’t need a university degree to understand it. In other words, virtue ethics seems to be more receptive and pliable to people of all ages and backgrounds. Keep up the good work! Individuals come and go, civilizations come and go, but natural principles remain forever, so thank you for keeping the torch let, especially during times of great darkness.

    1. Thank you so much for reading and commenting, Jason. I am really sympathetic to virtue ethics, too! And for many of the same reasons you are. I agree that there is something intuitive about virtue ethics. Thank you so much, again, for stopping by and for your kind words.

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